# Jeff & Alyssa: Latest YouTube Videos & Shorts

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As of 2026-10-29, Jeff & Alyssa has 664,000 subscribers, 82,233,104 total views, and 201 videos. It ranks #114,132 by subscribers among channels tracked by vidIQ.

The most recent uploads from [Jeff & Alyssa](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/). Each video links to its own stats page. The page lists the rest of the channel's videos to signed-in vidIQ users.

## About this sample

- The latest upload vidIQ has for Jeff & Alyssa is “October 10, 2025”, a Short published Oct 10, 2025.
- These are Jeff & Alyssa’s 48 most recent public uploads vidIQ has data for, published between Apr 24, 2017 and Oct 10, 2025 (42 long-form videos and 6 Shorts).
- Median views across these 48 uploads: 21,878. 24 videos are above that median and 24 below.
- Most viewed in the sample: “Why You Don't Need To Be Compatible To Marry \| Jefferson & Alyssa Bethke” (145,218 views, May 19, 2017). Least viewed: “the magic isn’t in getting it right as a parent, the magic is consistently repairing when you don’t.” (3,039 views, Aug 15, 2025).
- Median length: 6:15 for 42 long-form videos; 1:22 for 6 Shorts.
- In this sample, Jeff & Alyssa’s consecutive uploads were a median of 8 days apart (shortest gap 0 days, longest 716 days).
- Views are lifetime totals as of Oct 29, 2026, so newer uploads have had less time to collect them. These figures describe only the videos listed here, not the whole channel, and do not show why any video performed as it did. Dates are UTC.

## Recent uploads

| Video | Published (UTC) | Format | Views | Duration | Outlier score |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| [October 10, 2025](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/Gp1dTTtm9Fs/) | 2025-10-10 | Short | 4,003 | 2:00 | - |
| [the magic isn’t in getting it right as a parent, the magic is consistently repairing when you don’t.](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/RVU59Rl2O9E/) | 2025-08-15 | Short | 3,039 | 1:13 | - |
| [Embrace difficulty!](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/6le94hG-Kl0/) | 2025-08-12 | Short | 3,107 | 1:45 | - |
| [August 8, 2025](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/ZCYxQT0BYmk/) | 2025-08-08 | Short | 3,996 | 1:21 | - |
| [Show me where you get defensive and I’ll show you your idols.](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/kvjv0OYmxbI/) | 2025-08-08 | Short | 5,052 | 1:23 | - |
| [men, it's time to fight the shadows.](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/0VMC5C3n3kg/) | 2024-04-16 | Long-form | 18,042 | 1:23 | 1.74x |
| [Is online dating devastating to men?](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/XUmxAer8Xxc/) | 2023-08-01 | Long-form | 7,434 | 2:56 | - |
| [Why men are failing.](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/TBpW9KUCAio/) | 2023-07-27 | Long-form | 9,019 | 3:02 | - |
| [How can men be properly initiated? See my channel for full video.](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/E9qFcB8DHUY/) | 2023-07-27 | Short | 3,724 | 1:01 | - |
| [Take BACK Your Family!](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/FmwtlNsSREc/) | 2021-08-10 | Long-form | 27,705 | 2:36 | 2.67x |
| [To hell with the hustle](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/RCX33AKETeQ/) | 2019-09-09 | Long-form | 137,210 | 2:26 | 13.23x |
| [You Are Your Habits! \| interview w/ James Clear](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/IGJeiTbWMas/) | 2018-12-04 | Long-form | 13,904 | 54:45 | 1.34x |
| [Shape technology, or it will SHAPE you \| Real Life Podcast Episode 9](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/cZrkIC6Ndxs/) | 2018-11-13 | Long-form | 13,191 | 45:15 | 1.27x |
| [The difference between single & married missions! \| The Real Life Podcast](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/6lsLHimX6pA/) | 2018-11-09 | Long-form | 13,379 | 42:06 | 1.29x |
| [Our Addiction To Hurry \| John Mark Comer Interview](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/XQUfog4EGuk/) | 2018-10-30 | Long-form | 21,554 | 50:09 | 2.08x |
| [How Little Moments Can Change Everything \| The Real Life Podcast](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/Ji-lV3SUIk0/) | 2018-10-23 | Long-form | 10,962 | 35:54 | 1.06x |
| [When Self Care Becomes a Counterfeit! \| The Real Life Podcast](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/a-287H7nNYU/) | 2018-10-16 | Long-form | 15,246 | 39:13 | 1.47x |
| [The Importance of Home \| Myquillyn Smith Interview](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/FVkWDynn1X4/) | 2018-10-10 | Long-form | 9,918 | 41:53 | - |
| [The secret to avoiding burnout in your life \| Real Life Podcast Episode 3](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/4B3kr8TZwgs/) | 2018-10-04 | Long-form | 11,344 | 27:21 | 1.09x |
| [Why Don't We Ask The Dads How To Balance it All? \| Episode 2](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/pHdH29a73kk/) | 2018-09-27 | Long-form | 5,012 | 34:37 | - |
| [Why are we so afraid of silence?!](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/-hx4ZXRaAEY/) | 2018-08-30 | Long-form | 16,879 | 4:41 | 1.63x |
| [3 Reasons You Should Break Up With HER](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/Am8PjqDO-SQ/) | 2018-08-29 | Long-form | 70,868 | 5:08 | 6.83x |
| [How To Know You NEED To Break Up With Him](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/ZHCOQP82H3s/) | 2018-08-14 | Long-form | 49,432 | 5:38 | 4.77x |
| [Let's Talk About Politics \| 3 Misconceptions](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/lqmFrSuKBBA/) | 2018-08-06 | Long-form | 37,971 | 7:41 | 3.66x |
| [5 Tips to Not Go CRAZY on Social Media](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/NBMQgSiPdtM/) | 2018-07-30 | Long-form | 15,543 | 6:05 | 1.5x |
| [Are You Becoming The Person You Want to Be?](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/UJ6qNx7qlzs/) | 2018-06-25 | Long-form | 31,357 | 4:58 | 3.02x |
| [Why Millennials (myself included) Sometimes Frustrate Me](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/g4PYpy-1BYE/) | 2018-06-18 | Long-form | 22,202 | 5:28 | 2.14x |
| [3 Tips To Help You Read the Bible! \| Jefferson Bethke](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/bNZoAI0v3aA/) | 2018-04-30 | Long-form | 39,710 | 9:00 | 3.83x |
| [You are a Person of The Future](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/D4L0qt9N5d8/) | 2018-04-17 | Long-form | 15,015 | 6:34 | 1.45x |
| [The Secret To a Thriving Family \| Jefferson Bethke](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/-K676cqWzHs/) | 2018-01-20 | Long-form | 18,026 | 6:42 | 1.74x |
| [Why Getting Married Is NOT The Goal of Life \| Jefferson Bethke](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/uDtkh_L42mM/) | 2017-12-18 | Long-form | 32,782 | 6:01 | 3.16x |
| [What To Do When I'm Waiting For A Relationship? \| Alyssa Bethke](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/WzhG8YighZY/) | 2017-12-14 | Long-form | 59,812 | 5:03 | 5.77x |
| [What To Do When Your Boyfriend is Addicted to Porn? \| Alyssa Bethke](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/IMPOa-IF5l8/) | 2017-12-06 | Long-form | 89,222 | 5:55 | 8.6x |
| [How To Talk About Your Past Baggage In a Relationship](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/pJsS0Wklhjc/) | 2017-10-31 | Long-form | 50,861 | 5:18 | 4.9x |
| [The day I proposed to Alyssa!](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/5Mr63qH6Br0/) | 2017-10-22 | Long-form | 70,596 | 6:54 | 6.81x |
| [We Are All Lovesick](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/pYpKURoRLqU/) | 2017-10-05 | Long-form | 60,480 | 3:28 | 5.83x |
| [DISNEYLAND WITH KINSLEY!](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/jw9I_byZs-Y/) | 2017-10-03 | Long-form | 15,718 | 6:08 | 1.52x |
| [How Most Of Us Define Love Totally Wrong](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/c4ESG1JRjx0/) | 2017-09-28 | Long-form | 60,654 | 6:49 | 5.85x |
| [Is Tinder A Good Idea For Dating?](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/QjYPpgOcXo8/) | 2017-09-21 | Long-form | 53,151 | 6:23 | 5.12x |
| [Alyssa's 30th Birthday In Sonoma!!](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/5-VtjxHJkLU/) | 2017-09-19 | Long-form | 21,257 | 10:11 | 2.05x |
| [Do You Believe In 'The One'?](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/OF09NhT2Cm4/) | 2017-09-15 | Long-form | 38,134 | 3:55 | 3.68x |
| [Why Our Family Throws A Party (Sabbath) Every Week!](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/qpAcRTSLxHc/) | 2017-09-12 | Long-form | 48,830 | 13:56 | 4.71x |
| [THE VLOG IS BACK!](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/tnz9q7-43tc/) | 2017-09-05 | Long-form | 35,524 | 13:25 | 3.42x |
| [What To Do When You're Down \| Jefferson Bethke](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/nPPMgpcFmyM/) | 2017-08-21 | Long-form | 37,035 | 4:02 | 3.57x |
| [Jesus isn't Unique](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/mnrgmWrXdTE/) | 2017-06-28 | Long-form | 50,151 | 5:22 | 4.83x |
| [Does God Love Me? \| Jefferson Bethke](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/4Kj7dX21Ukc/) | 2017-06-21 | Long-form | 46,867 | 4:44 | 4.52x |
| [Why You Don't Need To Be Compatible To Marry \| Jefferson & Alyssa Bethke](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/kfAzt7UKvlk/) | 2017-05-19 | Long-form | 145,218 | 6:51 | 14x |
| [Stop Playing Games With Her](https://vidiq.com/youtube-stats/channel/@jeffersonbethkepage/videos/bDe7OCIko_8/) | 2017-04-24 | Long-form | 76,914 | 7:30 | 7.41x |

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